Today is Fred and I’s 4th anniversary. I’m currently sitting on a couch, watching Gilmore Girls and wearing my pajamas, and Fred is at a mandatory event at the school he works at. Some people might look at this situation and think “That’s so sad! Why aren’t you celebrating? I can’t believe you’re alone on your anniversary.” But I’ve never been happier. We learned at a marriage retreat that year four is the most common year for divorce in Canada.…